Wednesday, 25 December 2013

Christmas #2 Lincolnshire

When you arrive somewhere on Christmas Eve you don't want to take an afternoon nap and miss anything of course! Luckily Santa's reindeer were still in town resting up before the big night so we took a walk out to meet them at the local garden centre. Finally it was bedtime for Leila, but she managed to sneak in a quick cuddle from her cousins before getting tucked up :-)

It turned out that we had a veritable lie-in with Leila until 6am on Christmas morning; Nanny and Grandad were woken by an excited Alex who had got up at 4am!

Once again Leila was slightly overwhelmed with all the present opening, but she was starting to get the hang of tearing off the paper by the end. She enjoyed sitting in her new bike seat and 'sorting' the quiz cards into piles around the room! Christmas dinner was timed perfectly but Leila wasn't quite playing ball as at first she was more interested in reading her table present of a new book than eating, and then only wanted to eat broccoli! She must have got through the best part of a broccoli head that meal (which was a real treat for us on Boxing day!)

Leila loved snuggling up with Alex on his bed as he watched Star Wars on the laptop,  and getting up on the sofa to read her books with Grandad.  Leila and Nanny invented a game with the bath toys and Leila found that you could play peekaboo through the bannister.  We also took walks out to the park to go on the swings and often popped out for a quick runaround in the garden in our red wellies.
We knew it would be a step back in terms of sleep for Leila this holiday,  and so I haven't been too surprised thst she is feeding earlier in the night and sometimes twice before getting up. We've managed to maintain the snack (not milk) pre nap time,  but the 'goodnight' routine pre nap has been much extended (multiple trips to the living room to say goodbye to people for example!). She's doing her 11ish hours at night plus two naps in the day that tend to be 30 mins (an hour if we're lucky!)
Leila still has no 'words' but is getting good at her 'sounds'. She has a recognisable 'aaaaat' for cat, 'ppprrrrr!' for elephant and a growl for grandad!

Our Christmas Photo





OK this one is a little later, but here is our Christmas photo for 2013. You’ll see that Leila is a lot bigger and difficult to get a decent shot of compared to last year!

Tuesday, 24 December 2013

Christmas #1 London

Leila was pretty good on the flight (taking a nap in the sling on take off,  having spent a good 30 mins pushing her buggy around the airport!) but enjoyed the freedom of running around in the fresh air at Heathrow once we landed.

In London Leila loved seeing her Granny and Gramps and her morning wake up visits to Aunty Fabia (and a semi conscious Uncle Sam). She also enjoyed watching Martha and Harry play when we visited their house and carefully stroking dear Agnes their cat.

On 'Christmas day' itself we were a full house with gr-uncle (great uncle) Roy and Katie too (whom Leila swapped cat/phone pictures with). Leila became slightly overwhelmed at present time and had to take a break (to climb down the stairs to the kitchen and back), but was very good with all the business, tree and things not belonging to her!

Although our stay in London was short we discovered a new favourite activity: walking around the block. Leila just loved this! Granny had managed to get some cute red wellies and a Gruffalo hat, so Leila would toddle down the street stepping in puddles and generally exploring. The simple joy of this made us realise what we miss out on by living in Cairo.  With no pavements, meaning only busy roads to walk on, it's just not possible to take Leila out like this.

We had a right faff leaving London as 'the storm' meant that our trains were affected. We made it to Grantham and Nanny and Grandad in the end, but only thanks to Granny helping us to haul cases up and down stairs at stations. She was rewarded with a lovely cuddle from Leila and some waving :-)

Monday, 23 December 2013

Sorting the DVDs

Over the Christmas break we decided to do a thorough clear-out of our things in the UK.  Our huge DVD collection has been sat in boxes at MVR for the past 5 years, and we aren't going to watch them any time soon.  We sorted through the discs to decide which we wanted to keep - everything else (about 50 DVDs) went into a box for charity.  Leila wanted to make sure we weren't getting rid of anything that looked interesting, so she spent a while with Alice and Net sorting through the box...

Saturday, 21 December 2013

Sunday, 15 December 2013

Ella took Leila out to the 'park' today i.e. some grass in the middle of the road. apparently they stayed there for nearly an hour! Even though it's cold outside Leila still loves her "shoes time!" and getting out of the house :-)

This week we have mainly been.... cold

Baby it's cold outside!

Winter has hit Cairo and it's freezing!  This week we have had rain (drizzle, or sometimes even proper rain!) most days and this has brought down the temperature so we are now running the ACs on heat in the apartment.  We have tried our best to wrap Leila up when we go out, but aren't really prepared for the weather here (winter jacket, slippers etc all in the UK ready for our return next week). 

Poor Leila has caught a cold and so has had a runny nose all week so we have had the 'snot rag' out again (poor girl, what kind of parents does she have??!).  At the weekend though she developed a cough to go with her cold.  She's not coughing all the time, but it seems to be worse around nap times and there doesn't seem to be much we can do for her until she gets over it. 

Knowing our luck she'll get over it this week, but develop a new one as we land in the UK next week.... or she'll have it until the new year!


On a side note - we had our first night out of the year together on Friday for the work xmas do.  It was great fun :-)  The Pwebbles came over to babysit for us and even though she'd been struggling with sleeping through (having woken up at 12pm. 11pm and 10pm the last three nights), Leila managed to stay down for them.  Even more amazing though was that she didn't then wake when we got back.  Or wake for a night feed at 3am.  But slept through from 7pm til 5.30am!
We didn't even bother touching wood on Saturday night though - and she woke at 8pm in a coughing fit!

Saturday, 14 December 2013

Wednesday, 11 December 2013

Monday, 9 December 2013

BCA play

It's nice to pop to the BCA for an hour after Leilas's afternoon nap as it gets us out and she loves the cats there, running in the garden, picking up sand and going (up and) down the slide. the staff love her and play with her too which can bring her out in smiles and giggles.

Sunday, 8 December 2013

Leila the sound engineer

Leila has always loved lights (the more colourful the better) and has developed a passion for flicking switches.

As part of our sound equipment setup, we have a compressor which is kept near the computer.  Leila has found the switch to turn it on and off, and appears to like the red and green lights!

Monday, 2 December 2013

This week we have been mainly...Up and Down and In and Out

Leila's temperature has been up and down all week as she has had a virus, poor thing.  She hit 39 on the first day and had a prickly rash in her body. She was so tired and cuddly that we were really worried.  The doc reassured us and so prescribed Calpol and cuddles. A few days later and the rash had totally cleared up and she was back to her walkie talkie self, but despite this the fever has continued to come and go all week. At our third doc appointment of the week teething was mentioned and that evening the wails and biting seemed to confirm it.

Even though she has been really quite poorly Leila has still wanted to go out.  We know whst she wants because she goes and bangs on the door of the bathroom where we keep our shoes and then goes and tugs at the buggy. It seems like we have a little doggy on our hands! She totally understands the word "shoes" and will go and get the shoes out then sit down ready to get them on. She's trying to say "sh sh" which is very cute too.

Friday, 29 November 2013

Selfies

We found out recently that Leila has been taking 'selfies' on her phone.  Well, OK, Ella has been taking pictures of Leila on Leila's phone, but they still are pretty cute. 





Saturday, 16 November 2013

This week we have been mainly...dancing and adapting

Leila has started to 'dance' this week.  Her dances consist of either knee bending, fast stepping or arm waving. She hasn't figured out how to combine these moves, so does them in turn. She seems to enjoy her 'dancing' but she also really enjoys having us hold her to dance - which is quite tiring after a dozen songs and does somewhat limit the moves we can do ourselves.  She still really loves it whenever one of Scott's songs comes on the playlist :-)

This week has been a tough week though, as we are changing Leila's routine.  I have been feeding her before each nap and then putting her to bed which has worked fine for me as it means she gets tired but is also full.  The problem though is that Ella obviously can't do the same routine on the days when she's looking after her.  Alongside the nap routine problem is the bottle issue again - since we got back from Sharm Leila has been refusing a bottle completely.  She had a whole week of just breast and has now decided she doesn't want the bottle at all.
So we decided that I needed to change my daytime routine to try and get Leila onto the bottle again.  So this week I haven't been offering Leila the breast during the day, only a bottle.  This has been hard for us both, especially as she doesn't want any milk from the bottle! Naps have involved CIO which hasn't made it any easier.
We've ended the week realising that she really doesn't want the bottle, will sometimes take a sip from a cup of milk (but prefers to blow bubbles into it - who doesn't?!), but loves bm ice lollies.  She can fall asleep herself in her cot after a bit of crying and reluctance to let go.  She can get away with one nap a day, but functions a little better with two!
Towards the end of the week I did get in touch with a British Health visitor who lives out here to ask her advice and she was really reassuring that actually Leila shouldn't need lots of extra milk during the day if she is having two good feeds from me at night.  This is great to know and means I can focus on a new nap routine and offering milk from a cup or giving a lolly, but not stressing about the amount of milk she is/isn't having during the day.

Saturday, 9 November 2013

This week we have been mainly....spots and songs

Leila had a high temp when we got home on Sunday, then on Monday morning I noticed a few red pin-prick spots on her thighs which turned into a rash in the afternoon.  We decided to leave it overnight, but the following morning she had a rash on the inside of her thighs, her feet, her armpits and on parts of her arms and legs.  Needless to say we were worried!  The only upside to this was that Leila's temp had gone down and she really didn't seem bothered by the rash.
We got an appointment on Tuesday afternoon and the doc was able to diagnose hives (!) that were showing an allergy to something (or nothing!).  It's funny as looking at the way her rash developed it did remind me of when I used to get a rash on my hands and need to take anti-histamine too.
Thankfully the rash has gone now, and fingers crossed she won't be troubled by it again soon.

Leila's obsession this week has been with her nursery rhyme books.  She is constantly picking them up and wanting us to do the rhymes (and actions that they have in them) for her.  She has her favourites (Snail, snail, put out your horns - I'll give you bread and barley corns!!) although these don't match with our favourites (she is really not impressed by This Little Piggy or Round and Round the Garden). When she likes the one you are doing she will point at the page again and again until you have put on Grandma's Glasses a million times!  Her favourite to do with dad is Row Row Row Your Boat where she really tugs against your arms whilst trying to sit bolt upright!

Friday, 8 November 2013

A few more updates

In the post below this one you'll see links to a few 'old' videos that we've finally got round to editing and uploading.  Well, here's a couple more...

Wednesday, 6 November 2013

Pro-Morsi march comes down our road

There's been an increasing amount of peaceful marches by Morsi supporters over the past couple of weeks, and tonight a very large one headed down our road in Maadi.  They were on the opposite side of the road to our apartment, but there were a few hundred people in the crowd.  Our next-door neighbour went on to their balcony and began waving anti-Morsi stuff, which brought a few of the pro-Morsi crowd over...but they quickly moved away and rejoined the march.

Evening music and living room wanderings

Monday, 4 November 2013

Blog video updates

Today is a 'work from home day' due to concerns that the trial of Mohamed Morsi woudl bring Cairo traffic to a standstill (and thus make it impossible to travel to/from school).  Reports are due to be written by Sunday, and I'm still ploughing through the marking of 60+ essays.  I should really be doing some now, but my computer (where I've got the markscheme) has warned me that I'm running out of space on the hard drive.

Having had a quick look at where I could make some space, I've realised that squirrelled away in the depths of a billion sub-folders are a collection of videos - some dating as far back as January.  They're all vids we filmed on a camera and transferred to the computer to be edited and uploaded to YouTube, but we never got round to it.

So now I'm starting to get round to it.  Yes some of them are quite 'old' and, yes, they're possibly of no interest to you now that Leila has developed beyond the stage they show.  But I think it's right that since we have them we should edit and share them.  It really will take me a while to get through them all, but to get you going here are links to a couple of posts that feature the newly-finished video clips.

Sunday, 3 November 2013

Fun at home

During GrannyP's visit to Cairo, she caught on video some clips of things we do at home.  Everyone knows that we spend time playing music and reading together, but it's difficult to catch on video as Leila sees a camera and wants to play with it!  GrannyP managed to do some low-profile filming this week, and so managed to get a few minutes before Leila realised she was being recorded!




Friday, 1 November 2013

This week we have mainly been dancing!

I've decided that one of the greatest compliments it's possible to receive is the approval of your daughter.  Over the past few months I've been writing and recording songs for her, all of which are based on her own interests and activities.  The songs are loaded on a little MP3 player that is dedicated to kids music, along with a couple of hundred other kid songs.  It consequently take a while to cycle through the collection but last night I was lucky enough to be with her when the songs I'd done came on.

She went crazy.

In the first clip she's listening to "Dear Zoo", based on the book of the same name.  See what she does, entirely unprompted, when "They sent a lion..."


As for this clip, this is the second song I wrote and so it's become a staple of music time. "Hey Baby" is meant to be an 'action' song to dance to, and she certainly jiggles around a lot. She's particularly good at the 'twist down to the ground' and the second load of clapping!

Tuesday, 22 October 2013

Becoming a family

Two plus the Baba Ganough just before we left for the hospital to be induced on 21 October 2012


First family picture in El Nada Hospital three days after Leila was born

Home for three on Leila's first birthday, 21 October 2013



Monday, 21 October 2013

Leila's Birthday

Present opening part 1 (morning)


Present opening part 2 (evening)



We celebrated Leila's birthday at the BCA Baby Group as we didn't want to do a huge party, but did want to have some cake with friends!  Alice made two dairy free banana loaves (we had joked that the poor little girl was going to end up with a 'rice cake' for her first birthday!) which the kids and parents enjoyed and Leila was totally bemused by the blowing out of candles but she did enjoy the singing.





Sunday, 20 October 2013

Leilas Twelth month

Wow!  Here we are - a year of Leila!  This month has been spent doing lots of pressing, pointing and sorting.




Leila loves pressing buttons and so often will walk around the flat with her phone in her hand pressing the same button again and again (she doesn't look where she is going sometimes - how did we get a teenager already?!) She has discovered light switches although is better at switching on (down) than off.  What is really cute is that when she can't do the switch, she grabs our finger and puts it there to flick the switch instead!

Leila will point at things she wants to look at, such as pictures, or things she just wants, like food! She has a little 'after dinner' routine when she is taken down from the table of pointing at all the photos of her grandparents that we have on a nearby shelf - very cute :-)

We have recently made Leila an 'in and out box' with a lid that she likes to open and put things in  take things out of.  'In and out' isn't just for 'stuff' though, as Leila likes climbing in and out of things as well. Her favourit is the blue washing up bowl, followed by the ukulele case.  Leila also enjoys climing on and off the sofa and the bed - although she doesn't always do this properly!  To get up on the sofa I have to give her a 'leg up' but she loves this as she then sits on the back of the sofa looking out of the window onto the street below  She can climb onto the low bed in her room where we change her herself, but when it comes to getting down she forgets she can 'scoot' down on her bum and instead stands up and tries to walk off the edge of it!

Leila is gradually getting over being shy in large gatherings (like at Music class or Bounce and Rhyme) as she is becoming less clingy when we first arrive places. 

Sleeping, eating and health
Leila spent most of the last month with a cold and has been a right snot monster!  Being older she is now more 'squiggly' and doesn't like having her nose wiped (who does?!) so goes round snotty all day if I can't get a good swipe in! She had the cold for a good two weeks, then took a week off (!) before getting it back.  Scott has been pretty much the same too.  The cold has meant that she has been very cuddly some days (no problems with that) but other days hasn't been wanting to nap which has made it a long day for her and en
This month Leila has been a bit fickle about whether or not to take a long nap each day.  Her long nap is usually in the morning if she has one, but sometimes she just takes two shorter ones (instead of a long and a short - she still does two naps a day).  It's blooming typical that she chooses to take a long nap and sleep in when I have something planned (like Bounce and Rhyme or Music class at 10am).  I can't bring myself to wake her up from a nap to go out, and I still prefer her to nap in her cot rather than the buggy (as the buggy journey is a good 30 minutes and so I guess I'm worried that if I wake her up from a nap at 9.20am she might not fall back to sleep again).  Getting out to these events is really good for her socially and so I might need to change my tact if I want her to keep seeing other babies.
Leila can do most nights with just one feed now at the later time of around 4 or 4.30am  She can then wake up for the day around 5.30am (sleeping to nearer 6am is a rarity) which is pretty tiring, but she seems raring to go!

Friday, 18 October 2013

Eid

This week was 'the big Eid' - which, for us, means a week off work.  We decided to have a few days at home, but then to also get away for a bit of a break.  After faffing a bit with hotels and flights we ended up in Sharm at the sister hotel to the hotel we last stayed at in Luxor.  We managed to get a larger room and an all-inclusive deal for less than the cost would've been in Luxor, so quids in!  What made the holiday a real treat though, was that Nanny and Grandad were there too! :-)

Our days were spent in part by the pool, and in part in the comfort of the AC in our room.  The downside to having great warm weather was that it made the pool feel rather chilly on first entry!  This didn't stop us taking a few dips each day and Leila enjoyed her rubber ring in the big pool and stomping through the knee-deep water of the kids pool.  Out of the pool, Leila spent her time charming the staff at the hotel; by the time we left they all knew her name and she was waving, smiling and even high-fiving them all!

It was nice to have a break from life in Cairo and to have some fresh air and pool time, but the holiday wasn't as relaxing as it could have been.  I had been feeling rotten with a cold in the days leading up to the break and although Scotty had recently recovered from his cold it came back with a vengeance in Sharm, accompanied by terrible back and neck ache from the bed/pillow combination. 

Holidaying with a toddler is pretty full-on we have now found, and is very different from all the holidays we have taken before.  We realise now that not only will we not get a peaceful flight for another 17 years, but we'll not get a chance to finish reading a book by the pool either!

Sunday, 13 October 2013

Travelator at Cairo airport

I think lots of people can sympathise with parents whose child is starting to walk on their own.  You're constantly chasing after said child, bent-double in an attempt to catch them when they fall. While waiting for our half-term flight to Sharm El Sheikh, we found the perfect solution in Cairo airport.

Wednesday, 9 October 2013

Leila's ID badge

The best part of the day is coming home from work and having Leila run over to me for a hug.  However, she's recently been running over to me to get my ID badge instead!  This vid is of the first day when she worked out how to put it on and take it off.

Sunday, 6 October 2013

Leila's first Stavolta

It was a mango sorbet!

Saturday, 5 October 2013

Early version of Dance Around (to see whether Leila liked it...)

Toddler +Skype = new webcam

Before Leila was born we bought ourselves a tablet pc and this proved an excellent buy as it meant we could easily video Skype with home without clogging up the main PC and being able to roam around the flat.  Leila has always been fascinated by this device that talks to her and of the people who live in the 'box' which was funny at first, but now she is able to grab (and move!)  it has been proving very difficult to have a successful Skype with home - we just spend all the time moving the Gadget (as we fondly call it) out of her reach, or endlessly turning it round so that folks get a glimps of her before she rushes to another part of the room.

Recently we decided to change our strategy and found our old webcam (a Grand Mall special from our first year here!) and set this up above the big telly with my old laptop hooked into the TV for a screen.  It worked a treat with Leila now transfixed in front of the TV and everyone being able to get a much better view of her comings and goings.  Having established that this new set up was working we decided to invest in a new webcam which is working well (although its autofocus is not totally compatible with our toddler!)

Here are a few pics of the new set up:

Leila shows Grandpa her favourite book 'Zoopermarket'

'Who are these strange people on the telly?'

Wednesday, 2 October 2013

First blood

Poor Leila has had a tough few days. It started on Sunday with a runny nose and ended with a real wallop today!

Sunday evening Leila was so full of cold that she struggled to sleep. After 45 mins of restlessness we got her up for some Calpol. It makes sense now that she was so clingy over the weekend if she had been feeling this rotten. Luckily I was off work on the Monday and so could give her the cuddles and milk that she needed to start to shift it.  Although her nose was still running on Tuesday, she seemed to be over the worst of the cold itself.  

A few nights later though and she was feeling a lot better in herself (although her nose was still running like a tap!).  So much so that she was shrieking with joy at a game of chase around the living room and then along the corridor.  It all ended in tears though when she fell on the tiled floor and had a right whallop on her face.  Scotty tried to console her, but she was still wailing a few minutes later, so I took over.  It was only when  he passed her to me that I saw the streak of red blood on his white shirt where she had been leaning on his shoulder!  Poor little girl had cut her lip on her sharp teeth as she had fallen forward.  We gave her a bm ice lolly to try and stem the bleeding ad stop any swelling and she finally calmed down and felt a bit better.  This first blood though was a real shock!


EDIT:  A few weeks later we had our second blood. This wasn't self inflicted, but was the result of her habit of pointing and shouting at any cat that she sees!  Leila loves cats and meowing and the BCA garden cats are very calm, well behaved and tolerant of small children. It seems though that this week one took a friendly swipe at her outstretched arm and managed to scratch her.
Being typical first-time parents we were more upset than Leila was about this and so called our doctors immediately.  Looking at the scratch we could tell really that it was just a small one, but felt that it might be slightly negligent of us to not have the doc take a look at it.  Of course the doctor comes to our house and says that it's not even a 'small scratch' but superficial too! What fuss-pots we are! Luckily Leila is up to date with all her jabs (and the cut so small and clean) so she didn't need any further jabs.

Wednesday, 25 September 2013

EBF

Leila is nearly eleven months now and I am still bf-ing her and plan to continue until....well as long as it takes really I think!  I feel in many ways that after a rocky and uncertain start, I have come so far now that I may as well finish the job off!  It's not been an easy journey and something that happened this week prompted me to think of the ups and downs along the way. 


As Leila was in the ICU I had to try to express colostrum/milk for her before she even had a chance to latch on.  This was really difficult and being engorged made it even harder.  It would take my ages to get anything out for her and she'd gulp the bottle down from the nurses in seconds!

When I had my first chance to feed her myself she struggled to latch on because both of my nipples were flat.  We both worked hard at it and the nurses advised me to use nipple shields to help the nipples to form for Leila to latch on to.  Using them did make feeding awkward, but at least she was able to feed. I had to use these for a week on one side and about two weeks on the other until she was able to latch on without them.  It's amazing now, looking back, at how hard these first few months were.

In the first six months I had the usual difficulties that mums encounter breastfeeding, including blocked ducts, fullness and soreness.  We also had some problems around 3-months of her refusing to take a bottle (of expressed milk).  This made Scott's evening feeds really difficult for both him and Leila, but we persevered and gradually her confidence in the bottle returned.  We think that the refusing was related to the odd 'off milk' bottle that we gave her and the fact that we had to add Lacteol Forte supplement, then iron drops, to the bottle for a while.

When the doc here in Egypt diagnosed a likely dairy/egg allergy, I removed all dairy and egg from my diet.  The hardest thing about this was the need to suddenly cook everything myself so that I could be sure of what had gone into it!

I blogged in July that we had finally managed to see the specialist in the UK who confirmed a dairy intolerance but said that I should start to reintroduce dairy to my diet to gauge Leila's tolerance.  This appointment, diagnosis and advice was a real relief and we both felt so positive afterwards.

A week later after this really brilliant 'up' for BF I had a real 'down' when I found out that I had mastitis.  Mastitis is common for new mums, but not for those months and months into BF-ing!  One cause was probably Leila taking less milk from me as she was increasing her solids intake, but a key factor in developing it was probably me feeding her whilst lying down in bed and therefore the breast not draining fully. I am so glad though that I noticed the signs and was able to get an emergency appointment at the doctors the same day. In the night I had felt 'full' but come the morning, despite my attempts to empty the breast I was still very full and starting to feel in pain there.  I was able to continue to feed and get on during the day, but by late afternoon (and my doc appointment) I was in real pain every time I touched the breast and was developing a fever and flu-like symptoms.  I was able to take two of the antibiotics before bed that night and the following morning felt a lot better as the worst of it had passed, thank goodness.  The main frustration with being on a ten-day course of antibiotics wasn't that I couldn't drink (I could!) but that they had to be taken on an empty stomach - no more mid-morning snacks for me ;-(

Back in Cairo after the summer we realised that Leila had decided she didn't want to take a bottle again.  The cause this time was having spent so much time over the summer at the breast she no longer wanted to have a bottle but would save herself for the breast.  This was a real problem as with me due back in work within a week we had to get her used to a bottle again.  We had a few really tough days trying to prepare her.  Tough for her as she didn't understand why she needed to change, and tough for Scott as he had to try and give her a bottle when she was unhappy.  I had to stay out of the way before and during a feed and then express ready for the next feed.  She is taking the bottle now from Scott and from Ella, our nanny, although sometimes will take it in a few sittings.


So, finally onto the reason that I started this post.  Leila sometimes likes to 'bite' at the end of a feed.  Not often, but sometimes when she is feeling 'cheeky'. Now that she has teeth I have to strongly say 'no biting' and take her off.  She did manage to get a nip in last week and whilst it wasn't too bad at the time, a few days later I was in real pain as the cut wasn't able to heal and was being pulled apart every time she went back to feed on that side.  Not nice!  It has finally healed now after four days of not letting her feed on that side and only pumping.

So what next for BF - hopefully a cut down in feeds as she takes more solids, but hopefully continuing to be happy and healthy.

Saturday, 21 September 2013

Leila's eleventh month

Leila's eleventh month 

This month, what with all the too-ing and fro-ing at the end of the summer break, we forgot to take a family portrait on the 21st. So instead of the usual family pic, here are a couple of others from that time.

Exploring the kitchen at MVR

Selfie!  It's so hard to take a picture of Leila now as she is obsessed with technology!

Dad and daughter.

Development and Play
Since getting back to Cairo Leila is just walking all the time now.  A real advantage of living in a flat!  We have fenced off a large area of the living room as a 'safe' zone, but as she grows in confidence we're just letting her walk all around the flat with us.  We don't let her in the kitchen and we keep the doors to the spare room, spare bathrooms and laundry room shut, but otherwise she is a free range baby!
As the month has passed she has been falling over less and less and can really balance well.  She has started to enjoy steps up and down which we let her do (holding our hands) on the ukulele case. She is also now able to get to standing from sitting by herself. This gives her a lot more freedom (and keeps us on our toes too!) and real independence.  Leila also enjoy playing 'chase' and she's so good at not loosing her balance when she wobbles now.  She can go on tip toes to try and get things (usually technology or when she really wants to be picked up).
Leila has started to learn about 'in and out' now and will put things into her box (and take everything out of course!) She sometimes does this with her food at the end of meals, but her preference is for dropping that on the floor still.  She will give us things if we ask for them and hold our hands open.
Leila still absolutely loves music, daddy playing guitar and her books.  Leila will clap and jiggle to music when it is playing, but she also will walk around clapping if she is happy.  She is getting loads better at strumming her ukulele and whenever music is playing she can recognise dad's songs from the other 'baby friendly' music we have on the playlist.  She is back into her chewing phase with books and I spend a few evenings each week selotaping spines and flaps back into her latest read.
Leila doesn't really have a number one favourite toy.  She played a lot with Chimp over the summer and so likes to walk around holding him by the hand (or leg, or tail, or ear).  Since coming back to Cairo she recognised the Were Bears (even though we had a baby Fang in London and a large Fang here, she still recognised him) and is perfecting her "raagh!"  Leila does have some favourite books though; Dear Zoo and I Went to the Zoopermarket.  Both are lift-the-flap books and we attempt some animal noises with them that she is starting to imitate (well, she only imitates the 'raagh' really!)
We've been going to all our usual 'social scene' now we are back home of Baby Group, Bounce and Rhyme and Toddler Club at the BCA on Saturdays.  It is really funny to see Leila 'shy' again after a summer of being very outgoing.  Although we tried to get her seeing other babies over the summer it was mainly adults that she saw, so it takes her a good 15 minutes to get comfortable at the start of each group.  Her shyness isn't too bad, it's just that she wants to be close to me when we arrive and wants to quietly look at what is going on before she joins in.

Feeding/Eating
Leila has her good and her off days for food at the moment; sometimes eating lots and sometimes just eating one or two things from the range we put in front of her.  Courgettes are still out, but cucumber is in, as are peas (frozen peas we love you!).  She loves mash and porridge and pasta.
When we got back to Cairo we realised that Leila was refusing the bottle - mainly out of preference because she had become so used to breastfeeding over the summer.  This cause a bit of a nightmare week as we tried to reintroduce it ready for me going back to work.  She is OK taking a bottle with the (new) nanny, Ella, now.  Sometimes it will be in a few 'sittings' or Ella will give her an ice lolly of breastmilk as a back-up.
Reintroduction of dairy into my diet continues to go well.  It's hard to have dairy in my diet when I'm also trying to eat the same things as Leila, but I try to have a yoghurt in the evening now and cheese sandwiches when I am at work etc. We had a few nappies that looked like they could be mucousy, but we're not 100% sure so we're keeping going 'as is' until we see anything else.

Sleeping
Thankfully Leila remembered her own bed once we were back in Cairo and has been fine back in her own room too (if anything it took me longer to adjust to having the background noise of AC when trying to sleep and using a monitor again!)
She still wakes once or twice in the night.  This can be as early as 1am or as late as 4am.  I am trying to wait at least 5 minutes after I hear her call out before I go in, as sometimes she doesn't really need feeding and can just settle herself again.
Back in Cairo Leila has remember how to do a 'long nap' although she doesn't take a long one every day.  It's amazing that some days she will nap for just an hour or so (2 x 35min) and other days can approach 3 hours (2 x 1.5hr)! We keep trying to have the same routine for naps and bedtime, but trying not to get too uptight about it either.

Teeth and Temperament
I would say that 'Leila's teeth continue to come' as it feels like she has been teething again here - biting, chewing, red cheeks etc, but there is no sign of her getting her sixth tooth yet.  She is wonderfully gappy at the front now that her other front tooth is coming through.  The 'Pennington Gap' is alive and well in this one!
Sometimes Leila will bite at the end of a feed.  She knows that she shouldn't as she always does it gently and slowly and then turns to be with a grin on her face. I say 'no biting' and then take her off, so hopefully she will stop it one day.
Leila has become a little grumpy pants on occaision now and likes to get her way. If she is upset about something then she can really strop out and wails the house down whilst jiggling on the spot (she can't quite stamp her feet yet, but when she can I'll bet she will!).  It's hard to find a balance between not wanting to give in all the time, but also having some rules (such as not in the kitchen and no mobile phones to suck.
Leila is gradually getting used to the new nanny, Ella.  I think the hardest thing is her getting used to not having us around, rather than getting used to Ella, as she has had two solid months of 'mum and dad time'. I am in work all day Sunday, then Monday and Tuesday mornings.  Leila tends to always cry on the Sunday when we both leave for work, but by the Tuesday morning she is just about OK about us leaving.  It's nice to be back at work and teaching again, but it feels harder this year to balance home/work as it feels like there is always so much to do for both.

Saturday, 14 September 2013

Wandering about with the ribbon stick (and lunging at the camera)





EDIT:

Three weeks later, and her grasp of the ribbon (no pun intended) had seriously improved.  Here she is on the 5th October, jiggling about while dad's songs are on in the background.

Friday, 13 September 2013

Saturday, 7 September 2013

Wednesday, 4 September 2013

WereBear peek-a-boo

Soon after getting back to Cairo, Leila discovered that the WereBears have a hidden face and became obsessed with switching between them.  The first clip is from the first day she noticed it, the second is a week later.

Monday, 2 September 2013

What goes up, must come down.... and vice versa!

As Leila is getting more and more confident with her walking she is falling down more often. It sounds like it should be the opposite really, but what is happening is that she just wants to walk and walk, so is walking all day long.  Most falls are onto her bottom, but there have been a few unhappy face-plants :-( I am happy to say that we have not used any of our extensive bubble-wrap collection on the solid wood furniture here, and thankfully she has only been adding to her bruise collection gradually.

So from falling down what does she then do? Get back up of course. Leila's preferred way of getting up is alays a helping hand from mum or dad, but she can do it herself from furniture well too. Her new trick though is that she can now push herself up from the floor independently! It's amazing that she has figured out (and got the strength to!) Whast she does is go onto her knees and then lean forward onto her hands infront of her. From here she straightens her legs and forms an arch, then pushes back onto her legs again to stand, The first few times we didn't witness it, but figured she must be doing it herself as she was getting from sitting to standing without any othe objects around. Since witnessing this though, she has now become a pro and can do it so quickly!  Amazing!

Wednesday, 28 August 2013

Sleep (back in Cairo)

Leila was so wired towards the end of our flight back to Cairo that she did not want to go to sleep.  Poor thing.  It was an hour passed her bedtime by the time we landed and she was insisting on being wide-eyed in the sling!  Even as we collected the luggage there was no sign of sleep in her red-rimmed eyes :-(
She did fall fast asleep in the car seat once we got started on our drive home (with a little cuddle from Chimp).  The drive through the curfew was thankfully uneventful and she stayed asleep as we transferred her into her cot.
After this though, it was Scott and I who struggled to get to sleep until the wee hours.  The first problem was that the AC in our room wasn't working (which Scott blogged about here), and the second was getting used to listening to Leila on the monitor again.  After two months of sleeping in the same room I thought it was her that would struggle being on her own again, not me!
So night #1 back in Cairo was good for Leila (in the end), but not so for us.

Night #2 and it was Leila struggling this time.  We think we can see her second front tooth coming through on top and she was whinging during the day abit about it.  We gave her bongela as she went to bed, but she was up just before midnight for a feed and then was struggling to re-settle herself.  She wasn't crying out, but was just moaning every 10 mins or so. It sounded like she wanted to sleep, but just couldn't.  So at 1am we both got up and gave her some calpol and then another feed.  She did go down in the end and then woke at 4.30am for another feed.  When she woke at 6.15am I wondered if this would be it and she wanted to get up for the day, but she still seemed tired and wanting to sleep so I let her go back down after the feed.  She didn't wake up then until 8.30am. What a lie-in!

Night #3 and we are nearly getting there with feeds / waking. She got up at 7.30am this morning which is a bit more on track with things and allowed her to take an hour-long morning nap as well as her afternoon nap (the day before because she had got up so late her first nap was lunchtime really and so she missed her afternoon nap).

What will night #4 bring?
She is very happy to be put down 'sleepy, but not asleep', but has been gringy all afternoon with tooth ache and a bit of bottle-strike.  Fingers (and toes) crossed.

Balls

I'm writing this post for no other reason than to post this photo.


Yep, that was one our suitcases containing a collapsible play pen, a slow cooker, some other small bits and bobs...and roughly 250 plastic balls to make a ball pit.  There were another 50 in a second suitcase!

Part of me really wanted us to be stopped by security.

“What is in the bag, sir?”

“Balls, officer.”

But that didn’t happen – Nabil met us, whisked us through passport control, and got us onto a school bus through the curfew quicker than you can say, “military intervention”.

As for the balls, we've now got them in the playpen.  And although they took up a huge amount of space and led to us needing to repack two cases, I think it was worth it.  Yesterday we spent some time with Leila getting her used to going in the ‘ballpit’, and now she independently wanders down to it and crawls inside to play.

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Tuesday, 27 August 2013

DIY - again!

It's become tradition for us to dedicate the first few days back in Cairo to DIY.  Sometimes this is out of choice, sometimes necessity.  This year it was both.

We got back to the apartment at the not-too-terrible time of 10.15pm and, after sorting Leila's room while  she thankfully stayed asleep in the car seat, we put her to bed.  Feeling that strange buzz you get after a flight, we then spent an hour or so unpacking our suitcases and generally 'sorting' things.  Sometime just before midnight we decided enough was enough and started to get ready for bed, but Alice was struggling to flick the mains electricity switch for the air conditioner in our bedroom.

"Just give it some force and flick it," I said, rather unhelpfully.  But it wouldn't budge.

So then I had a go.  It wouldn't budge.  I tried more force.  It still wouldn't budge.

As is becoming tradition with this apartment, I took the faceplate off the switch to see what the problem was.  There was nothing obvious at first glance, and I didn't want to go prodding around inside while it was still live.  In a previous post we boasted about how we had labelled the different areas of the apartment on the main fuse box when we first moved in, and that this made it much easier for us when looking at the mains electrics.  That's all well and good, but it turns out we hadn't located the switch for the air conditioner in our room.  There were, however, a number of switches that didn't seem to do anything and, after going through them again in the early hours of Monday morning, it turned out that one of them was the master bedroom AC.

Having isolated the power, and by now feeling very frustrated and tired, I figured that if the switch in the room wasn't flicking properly then it would need replacing anyway.  I therefore set about whacking it with a hammer.  It finally moved to the 'on' position.  However, putting the power on and turning the air conditioner on with the remote control only resulted in a small flame burning inside the switch.  I turned it off again.

We therefore decamped to the spare room where we spent three hours failing to get to sleep.  Eventually we went back into our room without the air conditioner and managed to get a couple of hours' sleep before Leila got up.

The next morning, after breakfast and some playtime, I disassembled the air con switch and headed up to Road 233.  The guy in the electrics store had exactly the right replacement and so a couple of minutes later I was back home.  Leila was napping by this point and so Alice gave me a hand as we fitted the new switch.  Bingo.  We now have air con back in our room and, as I'm writing this the next day, I can assure you it resulted in a very good night's sleep.

The other DIY we've had on our mind related to baby-proofing the apartment.  Before leaving in July we had bought and set up a play fence to cordon off a large area part of the living room that we would keep 'Leila friendly'.  However, over the summer she's become very good and keen at walking and generally moving about, so we want to open up a bit more of the apartment to her.  Unfortunately, though, she insists on walking into the kitchen which is the once room we'd prefer to keep her out of since it's quite small and frankly not the safest room in the house.

We'd looked into buying safety gates in the various shops around Cairo, and they're very difficult to come by.  When somebody does sell them they cost a fortune.  We considered bringing some out with us from the UK, but they're heavy and bulky and we were already bringing 4 suitcases and the buggy.  I've also had a cursory look at building them.  There's a few carpenters around who would be able to do it, but based on the price of custom wood things we've bought already I estimate somewhere around 400LE per gate.  That's pretty cheap for something custom built, but considering we bought the plastic fence panels for just over 500LE for four, the fence panels are much more economical and just as safe (if not safer).

The question was therefore how to fix them to the places we need gates.  The fence panels are designed to fit together in a square and so you need a bit of a bodge-it mentality to do anything other than that.  In the living room we've used an intricate arrangement of industrial strength cable-ties to secure the fence panels to a heavy table at one end and a large chair at the other.  But to go across doorways we needed something else.

Yesterday we found that the end for the 'peg' on the fence will fit into a large steel hook/eyelet screwed into the wall, and Alice had the brilliant idea of using the same type of screw-in hook at the other end (where there is a hole in the fence to receive the peg) and feeding a broom handle through the holes to secure the other end.

So this morning daddy and daughter had an adventure to the 'other end' of Road 233, where the shops get more local and where there's a hardware store.  The shopkeeper didn't have any closed-loop screw-in things but did have screw-in hooks, a large set of pliers, and incredibly strong forearms with which he closed the loop for me.  5LE for 6 didn't strike me as a bad deal at all.  I also bought a tube of silicone bathroom sealant, which I'm going to try putting on the base of some of Leila's plastic bowls to make them non-slip.

When we got home Leila was ready for bed, so while Alice took her for her nap I set about using the new screw hooks to fix a fence panel in front of the kitchen door.  Fortunately the door frame for the guest toilet is close enough to allow me to screw both sets into wood, rather than needing to drill into the concrete walls.  On the left in the photo below you can see the pegs moulded into the gate fitting into the screw-in loop.  On the right there's a white plastic broom handle going through the holes in the fence and then through the other set of screw-in loops to secure it.


The gate was put to the test as soon as Leila woke up, and I'm delighted to report that it works perfectly!  Now to work out where else we need gates, and get them fitted!

Thursday, 22 August 2013

Bish Bash Bosh!

Since starting to pull herself up and toddle around Leila has had a few biffs. We rushed out the bruise cream on her first biff, but since then we've relaxed a bit and a "shoosh" and a rub has been all she's got in return!

Today though was the biggest bash yet as she toddled across the bedroom and misjudged the distance to the bed. She made a lunge for the bed as she go close but managed to miss grabbing it and fell infront of it - whacking her head on the woiden frame. It was a proper whack and followed by proper, full face wailing :-(

Cuddles, kisses, cold compress and bruise cream followed, but they couldn't stop her eyebrow looking like she is permanently inquisitive.  Poor thing.

Wednesday, 21 August 2013

Date Night(s)

What with staying with grandparents all summer, we have been offered a very reasonable baby sitting service! Things haven't always gone that smoothly though, as Leila's sleeping has been a bit off since we got to the UK.  Here though, are our top 5 Date Night experiences.

5. The Perfect Timing. This was third time lucky for Granny babysitting and meant we could have a night at the cinema - our first in over two years!  The perfect timing meant that although the film started at 7pm, its 25 mins of trailers meant we could put Leila down at 7pm and get a lift to the cinema just in time! No wriggling from Leila until after we got home allowing us enough time to laugh again at many of the brilliant jokes in Alpha Papa.

4. The Dutiful Grandpa. This was our first night out of the summer and Grandpa Crunch was in charge as we went to the pub for open mic night. Poor Grandpa was so dutiful that he was still up listening to the monitor when we got back around midnight! Thank you, Kevin! And thank you Leila for behaving!

3. The Lock Out. A double date night at the pub for us with Fabs and Sam in Bristol and Granny babysitting.  All was quiet on the Leila front and so a nice evening was had by all. The one mishap was that granny didn't have a key to get back into the airbnb and gramps was asleep and not answering the door or phone! Locked out, granny then tried us again to get in to crash in the spare room but we were in bed already and by the time we had got to the door she was off trying plan C! Eventually gramps woke up and let her in and we were all able to join Leila in slumber land.

2. The Lullaby.  Poor Granny had it tough this night. We knew Leila wasn't sleeping well so planned to be home by 11 to be ready for an early waking from her. We pushed our evening out right to the limit, as we were having such a brilliant night with Team 65, and ended up splashing out on a black cab home to save time. When we got home though we found that Leila had woken an hour ago and was only just falling asleep (now that granny was running out of lullabies to sing her!). Don't know who was more tired out by the experience! Luckily it didn't put granny off the idea of babysitting, but

1. The Favour.  This evening out very nearly didn't happen. A favour had to be called in about an hour before we were heading out! It was the last night of Scott's fringe show and both Grandpa and I wanted to go, so a favour needed to be called in. There had been many offers so we didn't think it would be too hard to arrange. That afternoon though we find that babysitter candidates #1 and #2 are both busy (one only having arranged to go out just 30 min before we ask her!). Time is getting tight and, as grandpa gives Scott a lift to Underground Venues, it looks like one of us will need to stay home later with leila. A brainwave though means we call Betty and find that not only is she free, but she is willing to scoff her tea down and be round before bathtime! So, we find a babysitter an hour before curtain up, and are both able to enjoy the last night of Scott's fringe debut!

Leila's tenth month




Wow, time is going by so quickly now!  This month has been one of adap ptation, walking and "talking" As we contine our travels around the UK.

Leila has proved that she is very adaptable to travelling (being shipped from pillar to post) - something she has done a lot of this summer. Staying in new beds, napping in different places and at different times, different seats for eating, meeting new people the list goes on. This has definitely had its toll on her sleeping - she struggles to nap for longer than 35 minutes and with only two naps a day. She has also shown that she is really sociable once she is comfortable with new people.

We travel back to Cairo in a few days now, and will be returning with a very different baby to the one we left with! She has grown up so much these last two months and we're so glad we got to spend this exciting and lovely time of her development all together. After spending all this time together it's going to be hard to go back to work and to reestablish routines and 'home' life. 

Play / Development
Leila is taking more and more steps on her own now and enjoys walking back and forth between people. It's really exciting to see her progress and there haven't been too many biffs along the way fortunatly.
She is getting better at clapping and does this when she is happy, or sometimes just when the fancy takes her!  She has also started waving and can wave 'hello' and 'goodbye' when the mood takes her. Leila is also starting to be chatty at times and has a range of sounds, pitches and volumes for every occaision!

Sleep
Leila is napping twice a day now and is getting a good 12 hours most nights.  Because we don't want to be getting up at 6 or 7am on our holiday I have taken to bringing Leila in to bed to feed when she wakes in the morning.  Most days she will then doze off after a bit and give us a lie in (till 7.30 or even 8am sometimes!).  This is a bit of a bad habit maybe, but hopefully we can change it when we get back to Cairo.
Leila struggles to fall asleep totally on her own sometimes and so I am nearly nursing her to sleep again (something we tried to stop in February because it meant she was waking at night and unable to get back to sleep without being fed).  However because we are moving around so much we can't do any sleep training until we get back home so we'll need to stick with this for the time being.  She is waking a few times in the night now.  We think that the nighttime waking is because we are travelling so much and sometimes it feels that she isn't hungry, but just wants the comfort of feeding.

Feeding
The reintroduction of dairy into my diet has been going well as we haven't seen any signs of problems with her poops. I have had pizza for the first time in months and Scott made our favourite pasta sauce with a blue cheese and (soya) cream sauce - yum!!
Leila has reduced the number of milk feeds she has a day now and seems to be reducing the amount she takes too.  She only has two daytime feeds now (mid-morning and mid-afternoon, just before her two naps) although she has increased her nighttime feeds. Leila doesn't take much from her evening bottle anymore and we sometimes don't bother to offer it as it falls so close in time to when she has finished her dinner now.